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Wed, 22 May 2013 06:00:52 +0100

Today is the one year anniversary of my aunts death. She was my best friend and I'm not dealing well. x[ I want to cut so badly but I don't want to disappoint her x[ I'm breaking.

Wed, 22 May 2013 05:54:08 +0100

Hey, you know she wouldn’t want you to cut, so lets not okay? Lets think about the happy things instead. What are some great things she did and said? Tell me everything, and celebrate her life. She would want you to be happy that she lived here and that you remember that life. You aren’t thinking about her death today, you need to be thinking about her life.
-Ashley

I got into a huge fight with my ex-best friend last year. We haven't been as close since then. I really miss her, and I think about talking thing out with her, but she's changed so much. I really don't know who she is anymore. I really want our friendship back, but. . .I just don't think we'll ever be the same.

Wed, 22 May 2013 05:51:43 +0100

Well, what I think you aren’t realizing is that you have changed drastically as well. And that is okay. Its okay that both of you have changed. People change, they get in fights, they grow apart. It is life and you have to accept that. Maybe you will find a friendship again, just strike up a conversation. Try and be non judgmental, because you both are different people now.
-Ashley

angelwrists is having a really hard time tonight and although she's been so strong for such a long time, I'm so scared that she'll leave. She doesn't know me or anything but i follow her posts all the time and i just don't want anything to happen to her. Please please tell your followers to send her love?

Wed, 22 May 2013 05:49:09 +0100

^GO

could i vent to you? if you dont mind i just dont really have anyone else i can vent to

Wed, 22 May 2013 05:48:59 +0100

Of course you can! I’m here for that reason, all of us admins are. We want to help you in any way we can. So please, go ahead and vent :)
-Ashley

For anon- after while cutting makes you feel MORE anxiety & depression & selfhate. There's NO relief after awhile you'd just convince yourself to do it just thinking it may help but won't. Trust me. Learned the hard way. Don't start, scars suck.

Wed, 22 May 2013 05:48:15 +0100

I've tried to commit suicide twice now. I just feel like slitting my throat so I can actually succeed it this time.

Wed, 22 May 2013 05:47:33 +0100

Hey, nope, we are going to stop these thoughts right now! Cause they dont help us any. What will help is thinking about the things you enjoy. Who is your fav person? Your fav animal? The best thing about nature. Think about the best things and your favorite things. Dont think about anything bad or negative. Say: I’m canceling my suicide plans right now, because the future is better than being stuck in a horrid cycle.
-Ashley

whenever im stressed i usually cut. but my mom found out and threw out my razor and im under alot of stress right now and im afraid im going to do something worse than just self harm:(

Wed, 22 May 2013 05:45:18 +0100

Take a deep breath. I’m stressed out to, but you know the nice thing about stress? The thing you are stressed out over is temporary. So listen to some calming music and maybe go off to bed? But dont do anything. Together we will get through our stressors.
-Ashley

I have never cut. But i have the urge to. I just wanna feel it. How it feels. People say it makes them feel better. I DONT know why though. Please help

Wed, 22 May 2013 05:43:36 +0100

It won’t help. Cutting doesnt solve any problems, it only makes more and the ones you had before are still there. Instead how about you take three deep breaths and do something you enjoy? :)
-Ashley

I've been talking to a guy and.. Um hold on, if I ask u to, will u answer me privately?

Wed, 22 May 2013 05:42:31 +0100

Yep come off anon and ask and ask us to respond privately :)
-Ashley

All I want is to be beautiful.. im so tired of trying

Wed, 22 May 2013 05:41:05 +0100

But honey, you already are beautiful, so why are you trying so hard when you are already beautiful. You don’t need to try at all, just be YOU.
-Ashley

After telling my best friend i self harm she said "No big deal, i do too." And she never really said anything after about how i should stop or anything. Is that bad? Should i be mad? It was a while ago also.

Wed, 22 May 2013 05:40:12 +0100

Honey, I think You are missing a huge point that she said. She said “I do too.” Maybe, because she self harms as well, she doesnt understand how dangerous it is and she thinks it is alright to do. I don’t think you should get mad, because it sounds like she is in the same boat you are in. Instead how about telling an adult you trust about how you both self harm. Get the both of you some help.
-Ashley

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Wed, 22 May 2013 04:30:44 +0100

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Wed, 22 May 2013 03:01:28 +0100

That anon asking about being pregnant is the reason why kids should have to take sex ed/health.

Wed, 22 May 2013 02:10:00 +0100

Most kids do have to take sex ed.
-Ashley

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Wed, 22 May 2013 01:30:51 +0100

If train A is leaving Portland Oregan going 120 mph. and train B is leaving 30 minutes later going 165 mph. why did my father leave me

Wed, 22 May 2013 01:14:00 +0100

why are these questions in existence and used as homework in math classes?
two things we may never find the answers to.
-Alice

Please help I'm scared... My boyfriend and I got up to some fun stuff today, I have him 3 blow jobs and he came on my stomach. Is there any way I could be pregnant from that or him fingering me and eating me out?...

Wed, 22 May 2013 01:12:00 +0100

o-e; if there is not sperm in your vagina
you cannot be pregnant. sex ed teaches you this.

Okay, please help me! I swear to god, I'm being stalked by a guy a grade above me. I'm seventh grade, and this guy makes me so uncomfortable! He knows so much about me (and let me tell you, I wouldn't count myself as "popular") and I don't even know his name. I want to tell my boyfriend (who's also in the grade above me) but I'm afraid of what the outcome might be! Any advice??? :(

Wed, 22 May 2013 01:11:00 +0100

Don’t let it bother you honey. If he’s not like, approaching you and making you feel uncomfortable in person, he’s not a danger. Now, if he comes near you and makes you feel uncomfortable, I’d definitely let *him* know. I’d try to talk to him about it yourself before getting your boyfriend involved— although they like to protect us, they are not our body guards and every minor problem we have doesn’t necessarily need to become their’s, you know? I would just try to take a deep breath. Maybe he just really, really likes you, and is very observative and just so happens to know a lot about you. If he isn’t threatening or like, literally bothering you, don’t waste time with him. o: Don’t let it get to you.
-Alice
If it scares you then first I would go to the guy and tell him essentially to backoff. Be nice about it, but you shouldnt have to deal with it if it is makimg you feel uncomfortable. If it continues please tell an adult, not your boyfriend.
-Ashley

Please help speakingwithaghost she's going through a lot right now and is starting to talk about suicide she really needs help.

Wed, 22 May 2013 01:08:03 +0100