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COMMUNICATION! You have to communicate how you feel and they do as well. We are all humans, not mind readers, so if you are worried about something, talk about it, discuss it.
-Ashley
#communicate #depression #relationships
I WISH I KNEW
I REALLY WANT TUMBLR FRIENDS
I FEEL LIKE WE WOULD CONNECT MORE SO THAN PEOPLE WHO ARE KIND OF NORMAL BECAUSE I’M REALLY STRANGE
you can fangirl to me if you’d like
lol but no i have no idea how to make friends on tumblr. T_T;;
-Alice
Man I’m so happy we can help you guys out. c: My life isn’t completely useless haha.
This is what the blog is all about. We’re here for you guys.
I do actually, I do…You aren’t alone in feeling lonely. I feel lonely all the time.
-Ashley
Just be frank. If he doesn’t want to be with you, he needs to give you a LEGITIMATE reason. And if he doesn’t, then tell him to go screw himself because he is not worth your time. If he won’t make it official, and wants to keep it secret or “lowkey” he is soooo not worth your time honey, and he is bad news.
So, give him an ultimatum. Get with the program or get out.
-Alice
Well, why does he want to keep it low key? There are reasons for everything and maybe he has legit reasons. Some people do that to not jinx the relationship. You need to discuss it and communicate with him how you feel.
-Ashley
How about you talk with your best friend then? Ask her about it and explain how you feel ad that you wish she’d pay more attention to you. You have to talk to her, or nothing will change.
-Ashley
In those sorts of situation, the best advice I could give you is stay out of it. When it’s relationship shit, unless you have witnessed it and have proof, do not get into it. People will tear you apart thinking you’re bullshitting them and relationships like that are very, very sensitive. Just leave it alone. Someone will tell her eventually. And if she’s too damn stupid to notice, then that’s her problem. Like I hate saying that and sounding mean but it’s true— when you get involved in situations that are meant to be between two people, it gets ugly really quickly
-Alice
Just let her know that she is important and that you are there for her. It’s her relationship. Maybe you could point her in the right direction, but very carefully at that. Other than that just provide emotional support. You don’t know, she might know but is just pretending it isnt true.
-Ashley
Looks have nothing to do with it. He may like you, you don’t know. But you need to tell her, tell her that you like him. Either do that, or you honestly shouldn’t complain, because you aren’t taking any initiative and she doesn’t know you like him. Maybe if she knew you could make an agreement that neither of you get him, but you have to communicate!
-Ashley
Okay, next time you need to definitely plan this out more because guuurl, yes.
anyway.
What I would do is talk to one of your closest, most trustworthy friends, and see if they’ll cover for you. Like, maybe pretend to stay the night at her house for a few days or whatever, and then have him come get you? Or get a taxi, and have him pay for it? Like I know that’s not the best gesture but yeah. It’s kind of hard for me to tell you because I’ve never went against my parents and like snuck around because 1. I’ve only done something without their permission once and 2. I’m not a good liar
o-o;
-Alice
