I'm The Girl Who...: Archive

Hey, i just dont know what to do, so i thought you could give me some advice? I've been close to suicide many times now and I've been self-harming for 6 years, i want to get better but at the same time i just want my life to end :(

did you ask for help? have you been to a therapist or told anyone about how you are feeling? once you start to get better you will not want your life to end… tell someone about how you’re feeling they can offer you support and help you start to get better <3 - Tania xoxo

Jun 24, 20122 notes

can we submit stuff?

we have many submissions at the moment but we will try our best to finish them this week or next week so until then they are closed - Tania xoxo

Jun 24, 2012

I just thought I'd say wow, well done, what you do is so courageous and beautiful and inspiring. To know that there are people out there who actually want to help people, to let them feel wanted and loved, it's so truly beautiful to know there are people like you in the world. Keep strong, I hope you know all your followers are here for when you need to vent as well! xxxxxxxxx

thankyou so much sweetie… <3 we really are glad that we can help some people and make them feel a little bit better <3 thankyou! - Tania xoxo

Jun 24, 20121 note

I'm fourteen now and I've been having so many suicidal thoughts lately, I cut and I don't eat anymore. I just want to live in this miserable world anymore, I'm just tired off everything. I really truly want to die.. I just don't know what to do anymore, really I just don't know what to do anymore..

take a deep breath…. you’re perfect as you are and you dont need to change you dont need to hurt yourself.. talk to someone you trust about how you’re feeling, tell them everything.. it will make you feel better <3 if you dont want to then write a letter to a friend and explain everything, you dont have to give it to them but just write it and let your emotions out <3 - Tania xoxo

Jun 24, 20125 notes

I'm struggling. I'm 133 and now I. Barely eating so I could be skinner, I'm totally lost. My girlfriend always says that I am beautiful and that I have the perfect body that every girl would kill for. I dont know what to do to love myself

you have to accept yourself for who you are, listen to your girlfriend because what she is saying is right. you need to believe that you are beautiful and realise just how special you are <3 write down every thing good that you see about yourself inside and outside and i hope you begin to accept yourself lovely<3 -tania xx

Jun 24, 20122 notes

People with eating disorders personally disgust me. I understand its bad too have an eating disorder, but it doesn't make any sense to me. When you're so skinny to the point where you see every bone in your body and you're basically dying, shouldn't something inside your head tell you that something isn't quite right? Everyone at this point is saying how skinny you are, so why aren't you believing them? You see every bone showing and yet you're still saying you're fat? Thats disgusting.

how could you say this? its a disorder, its an illness… you see yourself as fat and you believe you are fat, it doesnt matter what people tell you its about how you feel about your body? its not disgusting its sad and people cant control how they feel… this is a very sensitive subject and if you feel disgusted then keep that to yourself because the people who suffer from an eating disorder cant help it

Jun 24, 201233 notes

imfarfromordinary was right though. i admit you do help some people. but some of the answers you give arent heartfelt thoughts.

you dont know how running this blog makes us feel… so you cant judge x

Jun 24, 2012

i see that people vent there problems too you, and I've noticed that they'll tell you there whole life story and you'll give them such vague answers like "love you" "get better" or "its ok" like i don't think they want to hear stuff that they would get from like a lost cousin, maybe your people who answer questions, should answer it with more thought and meaning and not just answer b/c they have too.

your opinion.

Jun 24, 20125 notes

To people who are wanting to commit, please don't. I have struggled with depression and self-harm for the past two years, but today I just reached a whole month of not cutting and it so damn good! I will promise any of you that somewhere in your life you have that single moment where everything is good and you will feel so proud of yourself, please don't deny your future self of having the satisfaction of that moment! If anyone needs to talk to someone I am here no matter what <3

Jun 24, 20121 note

Ya'll try so hard to keep everyone alive. It means a lot to so many people.

<3 Thanks.

Jun 24, 20126 notes

p.s. the longer you stay inside and don't get any treatment, the more likely it is that you'll develop some sort of phobia/anxiety disorder. i'm so sorry that this happened to you. it's horrible and i hope you are able to get some sort of help/things get better. much love. <3

Jun 24, 20121 note

to the anon that was bound, raped, and is now afraid to leave the house: you really should tell someone. the best sort of person would be a parent, school councelor, or if you don't feel comfortable with that-- a friend. i think that the best thing for you to do would be to see someone like a psychologist or therapist who understands what you've gone through, what you're feeling/experiencing, knows how to help you healthily cope as well as get past it and support you.

Jun 24, 2012

I am 12 years old and I'm already ready to die. That's pretty sad , right ?

It’s really sad, but not because you are so young. Nobody should want to die. Stay strong. xxx

Jun 24, 20128 notes

How come people send there good bye messages to you? It must make you feel terrible

because this blog is for people to let their problems out… yes it does because there isnt much we can do yet we try our best <3

Jun 24, 20121 note

My parents. The stupid fucking parental controls. Fear. Being Fat. Having the memories of being molested for 6 fucking years. I am so fucking ready to fucking kill myself. I am so fucking ready to fucking die!

you dont want to die you want to be saved <3 im sorry about what happened to you :’( i hope you get better <3

Jun 24, 20121 note

im only 12 years old and ive attempted suicide over 7 times for the past year. i cut when i was 11 for about 6 months then i stopped. i just recently started cutting again but not alot. just maybe once or twice a week or 3 times a month. i still think about suicide everyday while waiting for the train to go to school. everytime a train comes, i debate whether or not to jump in the tracks. but i never do cus i dont want to cause a scene. just wanted to let out.

feel free to vent <3 love you dont deserve these thoughts to go through your head you’re beautiful please stay strong <3 - Tania xx

Jun 24, 20125 notes

no, it wont get better... even my besr friend said, it would be better if i would be dead...

then why are you still calling her your bestfriend? shes not your best friend if she told you this dont listen to her… i love you and im telling you it will get better and so are all the people on this blog who shared their story of how they got better <3 please listen to them - Tania xx

Jun 24, 20123 notes

I got raped last week. It was horrible. The guy tied my hands behind my back and had his friends hold me, so I couldn't get away. I'm too afraid to leave the house now, what can I do?

honey i am so sorry… if you feel like this then stay at home for a few weeks… have you told anyone? x

Jun 24, 20121 note

I so pity the people who run this blog. I love it to death, but it most stink getting all these goodbye messages. don't you feel helpless? :c

yep to be honest i feel very helpless at the moment… :/ i dont know what to do but i’ll keep trying my best <3 and thankyou lovely xx

Jun 24, 2012

I just want to say that i loved your blog, before i hang myself now, your blog helped me much... Goodbye. ‹3

noo please dont honey talk to me first you’re worth more things improve they get better please <3

Jun 24, 20121 note