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Part 2/? Thinking about it now, wad that rape? Because any time anyone else has had to try sex with me I start crying... everyone after the 20 yr old has stopped when I asked them to... so... I guess my question is... was that rape?.. -Kyo

Asked by: Anonymous

It’s a complicated situation, but I think it possibly could be considered that, due to the fact that he started without permission and then cohearsed you into it. Its really complicated to define what rape is or isn’t. Did you feel threatened? But the point is, what he did, wasn’t right. Sex is your choice and it always should be. You shouldn’t have to feel like you had that taken away from you, love.
~Ash

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Part 1/? Okay so when I was 16ish I was dating a 20 year old and he started to have sex with me with out my permission. He then asked if I was okay and I said I don't know and he guilted me into it even though I still wasn't ready/didn't want to -Kyo

Asked by: Anonymous

(Part one)

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I want to buy tampons, but I've never worn any before. What brand should I get? I have a regular flow. I do run from time to time. If you could suggest a brand that'd be helpful. Thanks. :)

Asked by: Anonymous

Playtex sports are usually my favorites. They are pretty comfortable.

You just follow the directions on the box when you get them love. I know you can do it :)

~Ash

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I have to get up in 4h30 hours, so I’m going to try and sleep.
stay strong beautiful ones

~ Bea

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Hi umm im not doing good again today and im rlRoy on the verge of deciding to attempt suicde again. Im making the decision abd I dont know what to do. I think im choosing to go. I dont think I can do it anymore. My family will be fine. It will befine

Asked by: littlebirdiesfly

Your family will not be fine honey. You matter, you have a place in this world, you belong here, and that is true even if you don’t believe it right now. You are wonderful and things aren’t working out right now, and that is hard, its very hard but it won’t be like this forever honey.

You leave a mark on this world, just by existing, you deserve to be here and to be happy. By leaving you will gain nothing honey, by staying you’ll eventually win the world love.

~ Bea

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My friends are ignoring me for no reason and I have no idea why ! They're the only people I have and I'm going through a lot right now and they know that but they still read my texts and don't respond. I don't want to seem clingy or desperate for attention though. How do I get them to talk to me again and help me through this? I'm going insane and I'm scared I'm going to do something drastic. -LeeLeeBird ✌

Asked by: Anonymous

Honey these are your friends, you have to be able to be honest with them about this kind of things, be honest with them and ask what is going on. It is not being desperate for attention, you are merely asking what’s wrong, and it will go ok honey, you’ll see

~ Bea

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It felt really good after being at school all day and having gym, being up for 32 hours straight.

Asked by: Anonymous

I’m glad sweetie, you now have to try your best to keep this up and get your sleep schedules under control

~ Bea

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2/2 And I can't deal with my parents, they're all constantly shouting at me and then I get into deep shit when I just can't take it and shout back! I don't know what to do I just want to die! -rosa

Asked by: Anonymous

Honey I’m sorry that you feel this way, but you have to stay positive, even if it seems impossible right now, you have to push through.

School is always hard and scary, and there is in fact a lot of competition, but you have to stay strong and remember that you deserve to be here and that trying your best is enough, because it is honey. You are good enough the way that you are, this goes for school and all other things. Your life will take a path and it will all end up making sense I promise.

Your teachers and your parents are just trying to make sure that you do your best. Sometimes they get a little carried away and don’t realize that they are pushing too hard , but you have to keep in mind that they have good intentions.

You are beautiful and you have a place in this earth, you deserve to be here and you would be missed sweetie

~ Bea

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I can't deal with this I can't seal with any of it! I've just started my GCSEs and there is so much pressure and they expect us to be A* and all I can think about is is self harming or killing my self! And I just can't deal with the teachers 1/2

Asked by: Anonymous

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So I fell asleep for four STRAIGHT hours :)))))))

Asked by: Anonymous

I’m so happy for you love ! I’m actually having a hard time falling asleep cause I slept on the couch this afternoon hahaha. I hope you continue to get the rest you need love

~ Bea

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Hey, so I have a girlfriend that goes to another school. But I only see her on the weekends, I sometimes find myself looking and thinking about other girls. I want to be in love with her. And it's just hard because she loves me a lot and I want her to never be upset over me.

Asked by: Anonymous

Ok, there is a grey area here. It is normal for people to look at other girls sometimes, even have desire for them. Relationships are commitments but you are not blind to the outside world. The difference is, would you rather be with them, or is this just platonic ?

It’s hard dating someone who you can’t see when you want to honey, I understand your frustration completely, I only see my boyfriend ay weekends too, but it is a matter of trust and love, and if you think that you don’t have that for her then you should not be with her.

You both deserve someone who would think that you are the most amazing person in the world, and If that isn’t the case, then it’s not really fair to her or you honey   ~ Bea

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please answer the one with -L

Asked by: Anonymous

I did honey (: sorry it isn’t tagged, I’m on my phone  
 
~ Bea

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so I like this guy and he likes me back, but he's moving really soon and I probably won't see him ever again ): I really upset and I don't want him to leave but he has to. -L

Asked by: Anonymous

I’m sorry that this is happening love, but there are certain things in life that you can’t control, and this is one if them. He is moving, that is sad but its a reality. However, in the time that we live now, it is not the end of the world. We have Skype and Facebook and all this other amazing things that we can use to keep in touch. Try these with him, tell him that he’s really important to you but you don’t want to be without his company
 
~ Bea

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