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To anybody who feels like self-harming/relapsing, I made a really rad henna tattoo instead of throwing away 33 weeks of being clean! Or you can draw a tattoo in marker, doesn't have to be henna. Works the same way!(: just wanted to share.

Asked by: Anonymous

Thanks for sharing!!!

-Piya

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    2014
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could y'all please answer the ask signed -JAC I've asked my question twice, and no one has answered, I really need help, I understand you cant get to everyone, I just really need help. sorry if im a bother. -JAC

Asked by: Anonymous

I looked for your ask but i don’t see it! It was either anwered already or tumblr ate it :(

Im sorry!

-Piya

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To the anon that was asking about the age difference situation, if you're happy with the person you're with, and you have parental consent there's absolutely no problem with it. I'm 16 and I'm dating a 23 year old and neither of us could be happier. It's like when we're around each other our ages are completely forgotten and no one ever really asks our ages. So by all means, do what makes YOU happy!!

Asked by: Anonymous

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    2014
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In response to anon asking about nash grier: nash has also, in addition to sexist expectations said, has clearly expressed homophobia in a deleted video calling HIV infected men "fags". He also tweeted racist fears about muslims in airports. He did apologize, but with bad excuses and poorly carried out actions. The most common thing he gets well-deserved grief for is about shaming hair on girls bodies in perfectly normal places, even complaining about "peach fuzz"

Asked by: Anonymous

^^^

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to the anon that got touched by men all the years through; I've went to something similar and I am also kind of afraid of men being around me or touching me (I'm a boy that makes it a bit more weird), but let a therapist or someone help you. You don't need to be emberassed, it happens to more people than you think, sadly .. but that fear isn't healthy for the future. Talking to a therapist will help, not from now on but they can help you to at least feel kind fo comfortable alone with a male

Asked by: Anonymous

^

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    2014
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I really want my boyfriend and I to stay the night together but our parents wont let us.. Is there any way to maybe help me feel okay with out him so I don't just lay here crying and missing him every night? :/ -Gen

Asked by: Anonymous

I sleep with a teddy bear at night. Maybe try that? Or you could close your eyes and maybe pretend that he is next to you? You can’t make your parents be okay with him spending the night, and its understandable why they wouldn’t,. Maybe talk to him on Skype or FaceTime right before bed? Remember that he is there. Maybe not physically, but he is always in your heart, right?

All my love and support,

~Ash

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    2014
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Is it weird that I'm in a relationship with a 19-year-old? I'm 14, and my best friend hates him. He is the sweetest and most understanding guy I've ever met, what do you think?

Asked by: Anonymous

Personally, I think at your age its a little bit too much of an age difference. But this is your choice and as long as you are careful, well, you make your own choices.

We all have our own opinions, but what is important is that YOU are happy.

~Ash

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    2014
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My guy friend (I'm a girl) said he wanted to rape me and I don't know if he was joking or not. I'm really scared what should I do. I'm 13 btw and so is he

Asked by: Anonymous

I think you might want to consider breaking off the friendship, and making sure you take extra steps of caution. What he said wasn’t okay, whether he was joking or not. Take friends with you wherever you go and try and avoid him, I would suggest.

I can understand why you are so frightened.

That was a horrible thing for him to say.

All my love and support,

~Ash

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    2014
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When I was younger, this boy made me touch him sexually. Then a grown man touched me against my will. And my older cousin (who was a boy) would always be trying to touch me. And people wonder why I flinch and back away from men.

Asked by: Anonymous

That’s an understandable response love, after the experiences you have had. Have you ever discussed this with anyone? Talking to someone might help.

I’m sorry for what you have been through, love.

All my love and support,

~Ash

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I have been through hell my whole life, I've survived suicide and I've been a victim of rape, twice by my now ex boyfriend, I am covered in scars and I don't regret that I didn't die. I want people to know it gets better please please don't stop fighting! I'm begging you, I had nothing for the longest time till in grade 12 my best friend of 6 years, who's seen me go through all of this, told me he loved me, we've been together for almost 5 years. Never give up, you reason could be right there <3

Asked by: Anonymous

I’m glad you have found the good in the world, the things worth living for.

I am so proud of you.

~Ash

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    2014
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I don't know how he calms me down he just does some how haha it like him being with me just makes me feel safe and thank you for offering to help I may have to take you up on the offer and I will take into account about writing into a journal it seems like a good idea -Ceri

Asked by: Anonymous

Sorry thats all I got for ideas… :/ I really can’t think of anything except maybe calling every night for like 15 minutes and maybe that will help? Sorry 

-Hannah

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    2014
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    2014
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I don't know what to do. I dated a guy for almost a year and he was my first real serious bf. long story short he broke up with me earlier this summer because we didn't see each other enough. The reason I was gone was because my grandpa passed away and I was with my grandma. On top of that he did it the day before the funeral and coincidently on my one month clean of self harming.. I relapsed. Now he's trying to get me back. Giving me gifts and I don't know what to do. I still love him.

Asked by: Anonymous

If you still have feelings for him and you think you two can work it out (which it seems like he’s willing to do) go for it! He obviously still cares about you! 

-Hannah