• 2nd September
    2014
  • 02
I've never been really suicidal. But I just found out my boyfriend got hit by a drunk and he died on impact. And I have an oncologist appointment tomorrow so my cancer is probably back. And I have no family and I am so mentally fucked up right now that I don't know what to do. I just got off the phone with police and my heart feels like it's in my toes. I can't handle this right now.

Asked by: laughloveandhope

I’m so sorry to hear this… -hugs- I can’t even imagine how it feels.

I’m here for you no matter what okay? I wish things like that didn’t happen; we lose people we love and life is so unfair. Also, I hope your appointment goes well tomorrow and that you don’t have cancer, I’m here to talk if you would like afterwards.

I know all of this is just heart-breaking, but don’t give up. It’s a lot of pain. i’ve been through a lot of pain before too and so have many others. But we all do have the strength to get through it, and so do you. Can you invite someone over and talk to someone about this? You shouldn’t be alone right now, find someone you can lean on and talk to. Again I’m so, so sorry and i’m here for you.

-Jamie

  • 2nd September
    2014
  • 02
To the girl who's parents are mad at her. My mom hated/hates me. I hated my life, because I used to live with her and she used to make me feel so worthless and she was mad at me everyday. 1,5 month ago i left home and moved to the USA (I am from the Netherlands) and I am doing way better. One day it just gets better, sometimes there is an explanation and sometimes there isn't. But dear believe me, one day you'll be fine

Asked by: shelosthersmile

thank you so much, youre such an inspiration (:

  • 2nd September
    2014
  • 02
To the music anon, I did this same thing! Release you- Megan & Liz Miss me- Andy Grammer What can I say-Carrie Underwood Bartender-Lady A(kind of but not directly screams break up) I can't hate you anymore-Nick lachey Told you so-Cassadee pope

Asked by: Anonymous

  • 2nd September
    2014
  • 02
For the anon with the music- Bruised and Scarred by Mayday Parade, The Scientist by Coldplay, Stay by Mayday Parade, A Part Of Me by Neck Deep, sorry I can't think of any more, hope I helped cx

Asked by: Anonymous

thank you!

  • 2nd September
    2014
  • 02
I have noticed that the biggest fat-shamers are the media because they portray thin as beauty. While this is wrong and I totally don't agree with them, I hate it when bigger girls turn and shame thinner girls. I hate hearing about us "skinny bitches" or that "real women have curves." I wish that everyone realized that skinny-shaming doesn't solve the issue or fat-shaming. Every woman should come together and tell the media that beauty comes in all shapes and sizes.

Asked by: Anonymous

A lot of people are dealing with their own body-image issues, like you said love. And that can induce jealousy or suppressed anger that can be taken out on someone thinner. That doesn’t mean it’s right, but that can just be why this is happening.

But I completely agree with you. The media has distorted views of beautiful, making people all over the place feel bad about themselves because they feel that they don’t fit in or aren’t good enough when that couldn’t be farther from the truth. Everyone is absolutely beautiful in his/her own, unique way.

-Jamie

  • 2nd September
    2014
  • 02
I just did the dishes and there's already so many dishes in the sink again...I just want to have a day off to myself, how is that so hard to understand?

Asked by: Anonymous

We all need breaks sometimes, love. I know that it’s frustrating and tiring. But even if you can’t take an entire day, make sure to find at least some time each day for you, okay? It’s a lot healthier. Even if it’s 5 minutes of just meditation, it helps to just have time for yourself.

You can take a nice bath, cleanse your skin, watch a TV show or read a book, go outside. Try not to get overwhelmed by everything else that there is to do and find time for yourself at least a bit every day.

-Jamie

  • 2nd September
    2014
  • 02
my parents are so mad at me and are taking away my electronics tomorrow. I am seriously considering suicide because of the things my parents said to me and I feel no motivation in life anymore I'm just so mad at them (no it's not because of the electronics part lol) so yea I would really appreciate it if you guys could send me things before my phone gets taken away that will make me change my mind because I want to die but at the same time I don't. Thanks guys hopefully I'll make it through....

Asked by: hipster-sheeran

I had a really difficult time with my parents in high school too, I got a lot taken away from me and I was depressed and everything was just terrible. But it really doesn’t last forever, I’m happy again now even after everything that happened those years.

You can make it through this, remember that you’re loved.

SEND LOVE

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  • 2nd September
    2014
  • 02
Music appreciation lady again! Haha and those are good! But I do kind of need an assortment of stuff.

Asked by: Anonymous

Alrighty! (: I can’t find others in my playlists besides country.

Can any of our followers help out?

In need of break up/break up and getting together again songs.

-Jamie

  • 2nd September
    2014
  • 02

How do I gain the confidence to talk to this guy I like? I watch my friends as they flirt with guys, and I’m amazed at how much they just put themselves out there, and she’s only 16 (while I’m 19.) -PT

Some people are just more comfortable with things like that, age doesn’t matter (: I’m 19 as well and it’s difficult for me to do some things as well, depending on the person.

Start slowly though, okay? No need to rush into anything or push yourself farther than you’re ready to go. Maybe smile at him when you walk by, or say hello. If he’s someone you don’t know all that well, you can always ask for help on a school assignment, or ask about what his interests are. If he’s a friend of yours, just try striking up conversations about anything, really. No need to start of flirting, just say hi and try to talk to him a bit more before you go any further. Eventually you’ll be more comfortable around him and can maybe get a group activity together and invite him. It helps a lot to hang out with people because then you find more things to talk about and can just spend time with them. And if you’re not comfortable just asking him to go somewhere (even if it’s not a date) you can have a group go and just make sure you talk to him a lot too. Also, if you eventually can start texting him, that will help because some people are better at communicating with texts instead of in person and you two can learn a lot about each other (:

Small steps, you’ll get there. And maybe try talking to your friends, too. That’s what they’re there for! (: Tell them you want to talk to someone and are just having a difficult time trying, I’m sure they’d love to help.

-Jamie

  • 2nd September
    2014
  • 02
  • 2nd September
    2014
  • 02
I wanted to get singing Lessons for a really long time now but I'm really shy. I know it sounds stupid but I wanna be a singer. So I was wondering if you have any tips on how to to be so shy. I don't know if that made sense at all but hope you can help xx

Asked by: Anonymous

I think a lot of it just has to do with practice. Lots of practice. You don’t have to start out singing in front of a big group, maybe start by singing along with music even when someone else is in the car. Then when you’re comfortable with that, you can just sing around the house. (I do that a lot) it’s just something fun to do and you’ll get used to people hearing your voice.

Then talk to whoever would help you set up lessons and say that you want to start doing something you love and that singing lessons would help you a lot. Then you’ll be comfortable in front of your teacher and maybe can sing in front of friends or family. just small steps and you’ll eventually become more comfortable with it (: I’m proud of you for wanting to pursue something you love.

-Jamie

  • 2nd September
    2014
  • 02
Hi so I wanna start a YouTube channel but I'm really scared that people from my school will find out idk do you think I should do it anyways??

Asked by: Anonymous

I think that if it’s something you want to do, you should do it. In my opinion, I wouldn’t care what other people think because it’s not their decision and if starting a youtube channel makes you happy and is something you want to do, go for it!

-Jamie

  • 2nd September
    2014
  • 02
I think all my classroom hate me :(

Asked by: Anonymous

Why do you think that, love? I doubt they would all be against you like that. Sometimes we are too harsh on ourselves and can take one thing that someone says completely wrong, or even the way someone looks at us.

But I don’t think they could all hate you, some probably don’t even know you that well. Talk to me about what’s going on?

-Jamie

  • 2nd September
    2014
  • 02
I need like 10 good songs about like a break up or break up then getting back together. I need to write an essay about a couple songs and the only one I have is I should've known better by hinder. So if you lovely people could help me that would be amazing! -music appreciation sucks.

Asked by: Anonymous

Well, I listen to country music so I can think of a few country songs dealing with break ups!

Every Time I Hear Your Name - Keith Anderson

Settle for a Slowdown - Dierks Bentley

Consider Me Gone - Reba McEntire

I’m not sure if country is something you’re looking for, so let me know if you’d like more of those because I can definitely find more if needed!

Any of our followers have suggestions of break up or break up and getting back together songs?

-Jamie

  • 2nd September
    2014
  • 02
Today I had my first football training of the season with my new team. They're lovely and all of my friends and it was really good I enjoyed it loads. The thing is I don't want a reason to stay, I deserve to be in pain I deserve to not be happy. I don't want another reason not to leave. How selfish is that I'm so sorry. -grant

Asked by: Anonymous

It’s not selfish, Grant. You’re just suffering and having a difficult time. After thinking that you deserve unhappiness and pain for so long, it’s very hard to just turn that thinking around and realize that you do in fact deserve it.

Try not to let yourself overthink this too much. You had a great time at football practice and you love your team. That’s wonderful! (: Now you can look forward to it all the time.

And you do deserve happiness. Why wouldn’t you? it doesn’t matter what you’ve been through because no matter what, you still are a good person who deserves to be happy. Let yourself just feel happy for now. You can slowly change that negative thinking and turn it around; as the reasons get longer, you’ll realize that it really is worth staying. Here are more reasons if you need (:

-Jamie